Ok so I'm conflicted, I found out who the guy is. She's been going to a hotel with him while he's away for work. He's 17 yes older, married 25 yrs, 2 kids and a grandkid. I feel like I should tell his wife what's going on. I'm guessing this isn't the first time and if he's been going around doing this she's at risk of many things and I don't feel that's right. From what I know of her she doesn't deserve this at all. Thoughts?
My WW cheated with her boss. They were using company funds to finance their stays at these amazing resorts. OM and WW would think of any reason for her to have to travel and they would add two days on at a resort and expense it. OM is also married, 20 years older than my WW, has children that are still in grade school and has adult children with grandkids.
I took everyones advice and didnt tell her work, confront OM or tell his wife. I don't care about OM. Yes, he was part of what happened, but my WW was the one who made the decision to betray me. That falls solely on her. I told my WW good luck having an R with someone who cheats on his wife and thinks its ok to sleep with married women. I am sure he will change just for her. Yeah right.
M:16 T:21 H(me) 38 WW: 38 S11 D16 D19 Red Flags of A: March 2018 ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018 Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018 BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018 D Filed: March 27, 2019