I haven't said or done anything except cry and ask him to give me a second chance. He said he doesn't want my friends in HIS house, but I am lonely because I don't have anyone, no kids.
He is rushing the divorce as quickly as possible and since we don't have kids it could be quick. The house may take a bit more time, but he says he wants to sell it as quickly as possible.
We have talked a few times about putting the divorce on hold for 6 months to a year to see where we are. He said I must continue counseling. He will not go. He did say that the divorce papers are wrong and we do get along most of the time. I feel like in many ways admitting my wrong and accepting what he wants to do, but telling him I don't want a divorce, has started to work.
If I agree to a divorce how is that ending my divorce? And I do want to be married to him. He is an amazing man in so many ways and a perfect fit for me.