I'm not surprised at CMM's jealousy or paranoia. I expect that it is perfectly common albeit unreasonable
It really has NOT been common in my life. I've had plenty of boyfriends both before and after my marriage and never actually encountered this once; likely because I've never ever been a cheater or a flirt. I'm afraid this has more to do with his controlling nature than with anything about me. And that simply doesn't fly with me.
And for cripes sake - do NOT pick the night I am home sick, feeling crummy, to indulge your paranoia, okay?
Honestly, if I thought he was amenable to talking it out I'd try going there again - but one thing I've learned about him is he has this strange rigidity of thought - whether it's the OCD or maybe he's on the autism spectrum - but there's no getting him to see another person's point of view.
Last edited by job; 05/09/1907:38 PM. Reason: edited a word for kml
