Now that you confronted W about it, will it help you get to where you need to be?
The whole saying happy birthday or not is trivial. Let’s say you move on and in 5 years from now the new you bump into her on the street, what would that guy say? Right now you’re dealing with the hurt from what’s happening.
I wouldn’t go out my way to call her. If you see her in passing then sure.
That fire stick was a lot to say if you are done. Then you confront her about OM and she defends the other guy saying you are trying to ruin him? This is your W taking to you like this?
If you are truly done, this could be the break away moment for you. If you’re emotional from it, give yourself some time to cool off and become level headed.
H 49 , W 47 T 23, M 17 S11, S5 BD: 7/18 IHS: 7/18 - 3/19 Physically Separated: 3/19-4/19 Piecing: 4/19 - Current
