Glad to hear you have a good support system helping you out. Use them.
Heres the 2x4 for the day:
You made a clear statement about tolerance the day you moved his sh**t out of your bedroom. A statement that showed that you were not his friend, a statement that showed that you are not tolerant in regards to his activities with OW.
You are drained, you are hurt and you are definitely hurting from this loss you are experiencing, so I say this with the upmost respect, but I say it, because I want to help you...
Stop engaging in his cake eating conversations - Your husband, is engaging in affair like activities with another woman, and he is fine with that. That just shows how little he thinks about you.. its all about him... Actions, actions, you, you, you....
Please... You are doing good, move forward... By taking the bait, you are coming off as weak and thats not doing you any favor...
Heres how it could had panned out: CSL: "I can't be your friend when you are cheating on me, Husband".
Husband: "What?! I can't have friends and go to the gym?!"
CSL: "We both know what is really going on."
End of conversation.
Lots of thoughts and condolences from my side of the pond.
Thank you for the 2x4 Hurt213. I continue to let me emotions get the best of me. H thinks he is just being kind to me- checking in, etc. But really it is all about making himself feel better.
