Lots and lots fo temp checking today. H offered up that if I needed to talk, or needed support right now he was here for me. He told me he waited up for me to come and talk to him last night, but I never came down. I simply said thank you, I appreciate the support. An hour later he pretty much texted me the same thing. I guess he didn't get the response he was hoping for the first time. Again, a simple thank you reply. He continued to text me throughout the day about things that we can discuss tonight. He does this to me all. the. time.....
Then it sounds like you are DB correctly! He is starting to wonder what has gotten into you and why you no longer chase after him.
It's tricky to find the right balance. I'm trying not to be too cold, but I am angry, and hurt. I am trying to detach from those emotions.
H just called to ask if he could bring me home something for dinner. I simply said, "I already ate, thank you." He asked a few more questions, talked about his day and then asked me about mine. I simply said that my day was great, everything went really well (it did!). He was obviously annoyed at my short response, his tone changed, and he quickly said goodbye. In the past I would worry that he was upset or angry and try to fix it, but I'm done. I am not his friend right now. He is cheating on me- why would I want to chat him up?
