Yesterday, while setting boundaries, she yell : " i just want to commit suicide because you make me feel like sh*t". I immediatly responded: " how? By caring about you? By making sure you keep your grades up? By giving you a job? , by giving braces so you feel good about yourself?"
" i do not put the booze in your hand nor the drugs. You distanced yourself from all of us. You want us to look bad so you are justified for the crap you do but WE ARE NOT BAD PEOPLE. WE ARE YOUR FAMILY. WE LOVE AND SUPPORT YOU. WE WANT NOTHING BUT THE BEST FOR YOU."
She locked herself in her room and i was numb from anxiety all night. D18, S20 and his gf were home last night.i am thankful for that.
This has brought back bomb day. It hurts like h@ll and i do not know how to handle this. I tried when S20 was experimenting and this is when he moved in with his dad. He returned shortly after. I don' t want the same outcome.
Can anyone share their experience with me please?
Last edited by job; 05/09/1907:26 PM. Reason: edited a word
