U, You are kinda all over the board right now and being new I think your under the impression that there is a magic bullet that is going to save your marriage. Unfortunately it doesn’t work that way.
Thanks LH. You are right I am a basket case.
I would love a magic bullet! But I know that doesn't exist. I guess I'm struggling with the paradoxical thinking here that you have to let go of expectations of your M, in order to have a chance to repair your M. It feels very Zen. I realize no matter what I do, the M may be gone, and I need to accept that.
Originally Posted by LH19
Just from reading your last couple posts I can tell your number one problem is your wife doesn’t respect you. If she doesn’t respect you she will not love you in the way your looking from your wife.
You send her a photo and she criticizes the angle. You don’t apologize and she doesn’t get pictures anymore. No one will ever say or do anything to you that you don’t allow them to.
Deep breaths, work on yourself and command respect.
Any advice on where to read up on commanding respect (either in these forums or elsewhere)? I admit I struggle with this one.
