My W had requested in an email Saturday night that I gather all of my financials and make a list of our assets and marital items with estimated values so we could decide by the end of the month who keeps what.
Get your list together, BUT DO NOT SHARE IT WITH HER!!
Flip this around. You do not have to send this message either. It is your thought process:
H:"W, I have no intention on drawing up such a list. You draw up the list. I will review. If I believe it is fair, I will agree. If it is not fair, I will give give you my changes."
Let her "Split the cookie" you pick the half you want to eat.
The first one in negotiation to "Name the price" loses. Let her name the price.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
