Originally Posted by TBSakaJ9

I am not judging her just stating the facts. When she is off the clock she is off the clock. When I am off the clock I am still actively involved.


Well, I guess I'm judging her, because I didn't know a parent got to be "off the clock". I find that interesting, But hey, it is your life, so you have to do what works for you, right? But, then again, I'm just particularly grouchy today, so maybe I wouldn't feel so judgy on a different day. wink


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids