That would have triggered me too. It's interesting seeing you wrestle with your control issues, that sounds very much like my H's behaviour over the years. It's taken BD for me to see why these control issues exist and to have some empathy for my H. It's ok to have negative reactions and to be triggered, as long as it gets repaired. Your H sounds like he dealt with it well and was understanding and did his side of the repair. I don't think a friendly text would hurt either way, as long as it's 'sorry for over-reacting earlier' and then continuing onto another topic. Don't fret about it too much, having a problem and then repairing is healthier than fake positive interactions all the time I think.
