I have one phrase that I keep in my head when I found explicit texts to the downgrade and I recall it when I start to do mental somersaults.
He looked at me with tears in his eyes and said "I'm so relieved it's out in the open because it's been really hard on me, living a double life"
Pure f***wit gold.
I'll bet you've got your own version.
Wow Yorkie! I'm speechless. It's amazing to me how selfish someone can be. Someone we have spent most of our lives with. Someone I do not even recognize anymore.
