It has been almost a year since I last posted here apparently.
I am doing well. The marriage is going well although W is at the other side of the country but while there are ups and downs we have gotten much closer. W has also said she is reconsidering the idea of having a child. I am going to run my second half marathon where she lives
We sometimes reflect on what went wrong and we have grown from that recognizing we both had flaws yet only focused on the flaws from the other person. OM arrived at the worst moment and W says she felt manipulated by him. Seeing me made changes helped but what really helped was the marriage therapy and especially the individual sessions.
What a roller coaster ride this was but I am excited for the future. Hopefully, we can live in the same place soon.
