she is still head over heels for OM. Saying he doesn't have money but quit doing drugs, got a job and fills her emotional needs
Omg, she doesn't understand a thing about addiction, does she? 12 step programs almost always suggest no new relationships in the first 6 months (or is it a year?) of sobriety. Doesn't sound like this guy is working any kind of a program which means he's high risk to relapse. Do you know what KIND of drugs he was doing?