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Hi bdp
Try saying just what you said.
Remember no pressure. Just be kind, and let her respond, no expectations. Keep it short and to the point.
Could say something like - I just wanted to tell you. I am proud of you, especially with the therapy. And thank you for all the help around the house.
No pressure filled questions. Affirming positive reinforcement. Kind and compassionate. And it’s the truth. All without manipulation.
If she wants to say more, she can, you’ve opened the door.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting.
Be better, not bitter.
Love the person, forgive the sin.
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