She filed for divorce supposedly last week. I should receive the papers sometime this week. I am okay with this. GAL has helped me learn there is life after this. I have moved on. I do not plan on trying to save this marriage at all. I am focusing on myself and the kids and have been happy. My kids seems happier.
To those you have been hurt or going through this. Please know, things will improve. You will get through this. It may not feel like it now but God has a plan for you. GAL and detach. As much as I care or cared for her, I can't control how she has or does now feel. I respect her decision and have moved on. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Keep faith. Maybe it will work for you (saving your marriage). I have realized that I will be fine without the W.
If she has a change of heart, right now, I have no desire to get back into the relationship. I spoke to my attorney and am awaiting paperwork. I want it processed as soon as possible to move on.
Good luck with everyone and their sitch. Also, thanks for the support of the DB/DR community. I appreciate the help and wisdom. I have enjoyed the readings and continue to work on myself and improve as a person.
Much love and good luck. I will provide updates as needed.
