It's a point well taken AnotherStander - lesson learned for sure.





What do y'all think about getting the house ready to sell but not saying that's what you're doing???

I have slowly begun to landscape, paint, etc at our house because, well, that's what she indicated she wanted from our M - that it was over.

If that's true, then I want to get the best home value we can, because we can't keep the house.

Having another tough day today. On the days I see her respond to DB of course it's easier, but on days where she asks if I'm going out (like she's ok with me gone) or she isn't wearing her wedding ring, I feel run over by a truck.

Thoughts on getting the house ready to sell as a DB?

Last edited by Cadet; 05/23/19 06:41 PM. Reason: combine posts
H46
W38
M12
T15
D8,S7,S5

11/12/17 "I don't want to be married like this" A began
7/12/18 Confessed A
10/1/19 EA still happening with 2
4/23/19 "I want a D, but I want to stay until I find a job"