Well my H moved out in September but has left a house full of his things behind. I'm moving them out of my way, I have a life to live and would like less clutter.
H rang twice last night so I rang him back this morning, kept it friendly but short. He asked if I wanted to meet up this week and I said I needed to check my calendar. He said he could only do lunch on Wednesday or Thursday. I think I will decline. He wants space, he can have it. I'm too important to squeeze into the edge of his life.