Originally Posted by AnotherStander
Originally Posted by RR17
So W just returned from a 4-day business trip. She seems happy to be home.
For some reason, I feel like I should do or try something. (besides move out)

Thoughts?


Say "It seems like you are happy to be home and that makes me feel good! Did you have a nice trip? Would you like to tell me about it over dinner?"

Do something to try and diffuse the recent tensions.


Done. I didn't say the stuff about being feeling good. We went to dinner with D16 and I heard all about the trip. Also, things really haven't been tense since our text interlude. We have been working as a united front against a problem teacher at D16s school.

I like the idea Steve presented about the date and kind of already started. I initiated plans for us to watch the Ted Bundy movie tomorrow night. She remains in an emotional high.


M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.