hi
I am looking for some advise.
My wife is asking if she can use my HSA account to pay for a shrink she is seeing. I said I will think about it. In addition I don't know if there would be tax consequences if she lives apart.

She initiated the talk recently about payoff off the land which kinda means that she is looking to move out of our condo and actively is looking to get a new apartment in the same city where AP lives. I am not sure if she still seeing this AP or found somebody new. I can see that she is withdrawal and sometimes cries. She has not asked me for any help or support so I am just being polite.
At the beginning in Contra dance classes I was more focused on almost trying to get woman to like me with intention to date. For some reason the last time not sure what happened I felt that I din't care if I find somebody or not as long I had fun it will be ok.