I suppose I know why she asked but I was still surprised that she did. I asked why she thought so. She said because I had been distant, doing my own things, on social media or on my phone alot AND it seemed like it would be something I could do considering the circumstances.
I reacted how I thought I should. I am married to you. I am faithful to you. My position about divorce hasn't changed. I won't stop you if that's the direction you are heading, but I have not changed mine.
Here is what just transpired:
Wife: (through tears) Are you still my Plan B? I'm getting worried that you're not! Boohoo!
You: Oh yes indeed I am still Plan B now and forever!! You do whatever you want and I will always remain your faithful Plan B!
DON'T BE PLAN B. This would have been a better response:
"W, I can see why you might think that but I am not seeing anyone at this time."
Period, end of story. You're not seeing anyone today. Tomorrow? Who knows. What this statement says is you are living your life at the pace you choose. You are not waiting around for her, but for now the timing isn't right for you to see others. IT'S YOUR CHOICE.
Originally Posted by IHCLACS
I wouldn't be a sure thing to her. I would have answered that with some ambiguity.
