I am sorry things didn't go well for your daughter's interview, but she can try again. Now, she has an idea of what they are looking for and can be better prepared the next time around.
I would venture to say that your h is starting the reconnection journey. It takes a while and lots and lots of patience and, of course, no expectations. Continue to treat him as you have been.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
