No contact can be great for detachment, and it sounds like you are getting there.
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I don't think I will ever get married again. Maybe I might have a partner or something down the line, but right now i just want to heal and be happy with myself. I'm a good man and i know my value, so do others.
You are absolutely spot-on about healing yourself. Find that inner joy and strength inside of you. Your happiness is completely under your own control.
That said, I wouldn't make any broad pronouncements about your future. No one knows what the future has in store for us, and it is best to be open to all the possibilities.
Good to hear from you again.
Thanks Davide.
Do you find it strange though that it's 7 months now since she first said she wanted a Divorce, yet nothing has been done? Even today, it's 3 months since the last Contact where she asked about my solicitor's details and mentioned she was sending me stuff, yet hasn't done anything. Now recently deactivated her FB account, wrote a goodbye message and said she was moving back to Germany.
It's soon coming up to 1 year where WW and AP started this A.
BH: 36 WW:33 M: 2 Relationship: 6 years. Dday: Aug 2018 0 1st mention of D: 30/09, 2nd Mention 17/02/2019 LRT: Oct 2018 WW & AP: EA & PA since June 2018 (Moved country and in with AP Feb 2019)