Confusion is my middle name...

[Coly23]

Hello everyone and thanks so much for your responses.

Just wanted to come here to journal a little because I think I'm going crazy! D and I have been getting on with our lives as normal but H seems to still be there in the background almost like the opposite of a ghost, there in body but not in spirit! We have been seeing more of him and his communication is better. Recently he has been over for dinner a few times and took myself and D out for dinner at Easter and even bought me a very big Easter egg!

Last week D had an interview for uni which didn't go very well. It was very emotionally draining for us both and when we got home H texted to ask how it went and when I said 'not good' he offered to come over. I did say that if he was coming to see D then it was highly unlikely that she would come out of her bedroom because she was so upset (boyfriend trouble as well. Part of the reason she flunked the interview) but he said he still wanted to come over and brought cookies with him. We spent a couple of hours chatting on our own and then he went in to see D.

Now he has asked to accompany us to D's next uni interview and has offered to drive us. I'm not sure what is going on and if this maybe is the start if him inching out of the tunnel or if we are slowly reconnecting? The thing is that his communication, although better, is still very sporadic. Also, if this was in isolation I may not be as curious but my youngest Sister texted me yesterday to say that H had contacted her husband out of the blue after 3 years and asked if they could meet up.

Other than that D and I are both good!

Happy Monday everyone! Xx