If you can't beat em, cheat em (thread 2)

[oops13]

That's how I felt the day I found out.

Being away all weekend was a spiritual event for me and put me in a place where I feel more patient and willing to mull things over.

The fact that the vows were made in front of all of those people really hit me hard. You all make great points. I just need to get better at internalizing and detaching. It's getting better every day, but...wow.