Originally Posted by joejoe1
Vik,

Don't lie for your W. Don't be an apart of her story/lie she's coming up with. She want to lie to her family let her do the lying. If she gets man about being caught or her family finding out, that means she know she is wrong and she should be up front with them and deal with the consequences or stop.


^^^THIS YES AND AMEN!!!!^^^

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And here's a little secret, she's going to blame you no matter what happens or how her family finds out.


Yup.

Vik, she's off the rails. Quit thinking in terms of how your actions are going to affect her and what her reactions are going to be, because she is going to make the worst of every situation regardless of what you say or do. YOU live for YOU and leave her to deal with her mess. Next time she asks you to lie for her or cover her lies then tell her "No W, I will not be complicit in the web of lies you are choosing to live. I will not discuss our situation with your family but if they ask me questions then I will be truthful in my responses."


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57