Happy belated birthday Manta!

No contact can be great for detachment, and it sounds like you are getting there.

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I don't think I will ever get married again. Maybe I might have a partner or something down the line, but right now i just want to heal and be happy with myself. I'm a good man and i know my value, so do others.


You are absolutely spot-on about healing yourself. Find that inner joy and strength inside of you. Your happiness is completely under your own control.

That said, I wouldn't make any broad pronouncements about your future. No one knows what the future has in store for us, and it is best to be open to all the possibilities.

Good to hear from you again.


W 34 Me 42
Married 7 years together 8
0 kids 1 beloved dog
BD 4/6/2018
I moved out 4/7/2018
I moved back in alone 8/05/2018
I file 3/06/2019
D official 5/7/2019