It's funny how it's so clear once you get to the other side. I often wonder what the recon rate would be if at bomb drop the LBS said calmly " this is not what I want but I understand that you do. Can I help you pack your stuff?" Then start working on yourself and creating an awesome life.
No begging, pleading, pursuit just complete detachment.
I know that's how I will treat all new relationships. Give it my best and if that is not good enough it is time to move on.
