And yep, already had a text wishing me a good day, I'm ignoring it.
My H continues to do the same. He says he considers us separated, just living under the same roof, yet he continues to temp check all the time..... Keep up the good work. I haven't initiated a text in weeks. When H texts me I keep it short and simple. I'm not at the point of ignoring it, yet.
The man is an idiot. He has sooo much to lose. Dilly 2.0 is an amazing woman. She's clever, funny, good looking and a good person. I actually feel sorry for him, he's risking the best thing in his life. By a mile.
He is an idiot. I try, but I still can't understand why the wayward spouse is willing to risk losing it all. My H told me that he is an idiot, that anyone would be crazy not to jump at the opportunity to repair things with me. Yet, he is an idiot..... Continue to do what you are doing. If my H wants a chance with me, he will have to fight for it. If not, I will be ok. Sometimes it doesn't feel that way, but every day I get a little closer, a little better, a little bit more independent.
