AS said people want what they can't have. You are the prize, don't let him have anything freely. With all this, wouldn't you want him to earn his way back?
You're right that your friend doesn't know about the DB process so kissing and making up like having sex won't work here.
H 49 , W 47 T 23, M 17 S11, S5 BD: 7/18 IHS: 7/18 - 3/19 Physically Separated: 3/19-4/19 Piecing: 4/19 - Current