Persistent Endurance (Part 3)

[SoTorn]

Just keep DB and when she has outbursts keep validating. When she puts you down ignore her. I dont validate put downs. Fortunately my WW never put me down regarding sex. However, her put downs still hurt.

Time for you to go dark. Go see the L. Get your ducks in a row. My WW began threatening D in August. At first it was a "if you keep smothering me, snooping, blaming me for having an A, I will file for D"

I confirmed PA and then I pulled back hard. I she started pursuing but negatively. Like full on criticism and judgement. Bersting me, putting me down. I just ignored and/or asked her to leave me alone.

Then she kept saying "stop acting like you want to stay married"

I responded by saying that I didnt want a D, but no, I did not want to stay married to this version of her. I told her if she wanted D that I wont get in her way. Took her until March 2019 to have the D paperwork drawn up. Little bit of back and forth on the settlement but its filed now.


I am happy that I wont be married to the horrible person my WW became.

All she does now is sit around, drink wine (yes she started drinking again) and listen to sad music about lost love.

Oh well.

Just be prepared for anything man. They literally go nuts.