When H comes home tomorrow and discovers his things have been moved I think I will simply tell him that I thought it would be easier, we could both have more privacy when getting dressed, etc.
I'm still not sure I did the right thing. I'm sure he won't be happy about it, I probably should have let him do it himself, but I needed to do it for me. It hurt too much to look at all of his things, it was just a reminder that he was not there. He considers us separated, we need to live that way. Perhaps it will be a bit of a wake up call, perhaps it will push him out the door even faster. Who knows?
Meanwhile.... he is still texting me, checking in, hope you had a good day.... blah blah blah. I responded with "I did, thanks." Why does he continue to do this?
