If you can't beat em, cheat em (thread 2)

[SoTorn]

What Steve said oops. Its not your fault. Yes its good to reflect on what you did. But that was your 50%. It was her choice to throw her vows in the trash.

My WW not only cheated on me, but after I caught her she wouldnt stop. Zero remorse because she "loved " this new man who is old enough to be her dad, is married and has grand kids. She also horribly mistreated me. like serious emotional abuse for the entire year last year and after BD. Putting me down, calling me names, throwing everything she could at me because OM and her had to justify them doing this.

She treated me so bad she lost me. I had already started recognizing my toxic behavior about two years before BD and was trying to be a much better husband. But she turned her back on me. I continued my growth and also got into really good shape.

I know I am a man only a fool would leave. I am way better looking than OM. Sure, hes almost retired so he makes more than I do, but a mans worth is not his paycheck. OM convinced my WW he was super rich. Funny because if I was super rich I would be retired at his age.

Now I strut around in very nice clothes looking and feeling amazing. I consider myself way out of my WWs league. I deserve so much better than her and I can easily find it now.

It hurts so unbelievably bad right now. But you will find yourself and love yourself and be happy with who you choose to be. You dont need your WW. You dont need her validation or love. You may want it now, but that will pass as long as you keep on DB.