Originally Posted by ovrrnbw
I think we move on in stages. Most of us dont fly through it. But if you were able to be there to help her a bit it probably shows some detachment progress. There were times when inflation ignored my W bc I was so hurt. But allowing her to continue to hurt me was my own fault. I say you're doing better than I was at this stage.

Thanks ovrrnbw, I know I still got a ways to go. I think once I land in my own place the real progress will begin. I'm shooting for mid-end july. That's my goal, no more than 2 months at my friend's house.


M(32) W(30)
Together 12yrs
Married 2yrs
ILYBNILWY 11/23/18
EA Discovered 3/20/19

In House separation 11/26/18 - 11/29/18 & 1/10/19-3/20/19
W Moved out 3/20/19
M Moved out 5/31/19
W Filed for D 3/3/2020