I think we move on in stages. Most of us dont fly through it. But if you were able to be there to help her a bit it probably shows some detachment progress. There were times when inflation ignored my W bc I was so hurt. But allowing her to continue to hurt me was my own fault. I say you're doing better than I was at this stage.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.