One way leads you down the path, where you are passively awaiting him suddenly seeing the light, while you get more and more depressed and waste your life in the process..
The other roads sets a boundary in accordance to that statement you made in the car: "I will not share my husband with another woman". His response "I dont want to talk about it" <-- Let me translate.. "I know, that you dont have the courage to stand up to my complete and utter lack of respect towards you, so as long as I can have my family, and OW on the side, hell I am not about to change anything..." <--- You made a statement, but you need to figure out if you are willing to back it up.... Its nothing but empty words unless and until you show him that you are done with his absolute pathetic way of treating you.
Very powerful words there that speak the truth. I have been trying to wait it out, to ignore his behavior and move on but the affair has not ended like I thought it would.
So now that he is aware that I will not share him or have an open relationship how do I proceed without being a controlling B?
