Hey oops, I feel your pain. Get those sad feeling out and try to recompose yourself. Please, don’t read all with a black or white criteria. Listen, I was a WWH some time ago. That’s why I’m here. I lost respect for my family and being here helps me walk some dignity restored road. W having an AP with a married man is not quite honorable IMHO...
Time to compose yourself and get your respect back. Feelings now are overwhelming. Take your time, regain calm. Get in contact with your inner self. Stand for your values and start the walk. Forward.
Keep reading the DB basics. They are for you. Keep posting your future movements. You may think your sitch is original but WWs actions are really ordinary stuff. Affair fog is thick as smoke. You can’t see through. I was there.