For positive changes I see 2 categories: 1. Work on self - exercise, meditate, hobbies, friends, be happier 2. Housecleaning, cooking, taking care of kids
I struggle on #2 because in the past I’ve made improvements and only made things worse. I’m not a slouch but I could do better. But from advice here I should not be doing those things for the wrong reasons. My kids are small and I work FT, I can’t do 50/50 on the housework and kids. I just am not sure what to do other than maybe do what I think is right, whether or not W is pleased.
