Especially if it is driven by MLC or life circumstances? We moved away from family 2 years ago, and we have 3 little kids.
She seems to think I have a personality disorder. I have explored in detail in IC and don’t believe this to be true. But my W thinking this may also lead her to think it’s time to move on.
She looks to me like a person who desperately needs a hug or some support. But has drawn no closer and shows reluctance to go to MC.
Her sadness could be knowing the BD will be soon. In which case I really don’t have control. I don’t know. I don’t want to make a mistake and step away if what she needs right now is me to be closer. She seems to be suffering. No affection for months, no I love you’s, no sharing of feelings.
All I can think is to be positive and upbeat myself.
Anyone else experience something similar? Could it be just a phase? Or should I be expecting BD?
