I would agree here.

But don't allow him to use the passive/aggressive response stuff "I don't get to make decisions around here."

Let him know you could have done a better job of including him and you'd like to partner with him for the decisions about your DD.


H46
W38
M12
T15
D8,S7,S5

11/12/17 "I don't want to be married like this" A began
7/12/18 Confessed A
10/1/19 EA still happening with 2
4/23/19 "I want a D, but I want to stay until I find a job"