But don't allow him to use the passive/aggressive response stuff "I don't get to make decisions around here."
Let him know you could have done a better job of including him and you'd like to partner with him for the decisions about your DD.
H46 W38 M12 T15 D8,S7,S5
11/12/17 "I don't want to be married like this" A began 7/12/18 Confessed A 10/1/19 EA still happening with 2 4/23/19 "I want a D, but I want to stay until I find a job"