Separated 11 months

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This sounds like me, pretty much exactly, and I don’t know what I want to do either. One year is this Sunday, and I teach, so I was giving myself until this school year is over, I don’t know if I’m ready to pull the trigger myself, but I also know, for me, it will be taking control of my life, whatever the outcome. People keep saying on here, D is just a piece of paper, which is true, but I also think for him, it’s a nail in the coffin. He also has too much pride that once D is final, I think that will be it for him.