oops, take time to process. Deal with everything. Take the advice here, it will help. Your plan in the meantime doesn't change. GAL, 180s, and detach.
Once you are in the right place emotionally you can decide whether to keep trying to save your marriage, or to move on. But remember, deal with your emotions. Make a decision based on clear thinking, and what you REALLY want, not on emotion.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
