Thanks Nef! Appreciate the correction. You are right much love to you too my friend!
Dawn I totally cosign not needing someone else to 'complete' me. I am totally complete and fine by myself. I like to think of adding someone to my already abundant and full life. It's such a liberating feeling and I feel amazing every day because of understanding my own worth and value. I am also paying a lot of attention to not paying attention to whatever exW has going on in her life lol. This decluttering of mental space has been rewarding too. When I got to the place of truly knowing that I don't want a recon with her, it was such a peaceful feeling. I have such clarity of what I want in a partner coupled with the fact that I am not in a rush because I am not trying to fill a void in my life, it is truly a gift.