Originally Posted by Maika
Hey folks!

Just journaling a bit.

It is really exciting to be on this side of the tunnel because I just have so much clarity now. I am also very happy with myself and spending time and doing things for myself. A partnership would be great, but I don't feel like I 'need' it and that I am missing something in life.


So understand this on so many levels. I saw a thing awhile back that said something to the effect of I don't need someone to complete me because I'm a whole person by myself. How true is that?!?!?! While I have found love again and moving forward, after I worked through all the D stuff, I was quite content in myself and being by myself. I didn't NEED someone else nor did I feel like I was missing something. It really is a great place to be because that is when you really get back to your true self.


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids