Hey folks!

Just journaling a bit.

I'm really happy with my life and enjoying this new found single life. I am not in the dating pool yet. I just need more time to get some things settled in life. I am loving this super detached mindset. With where I am at in my life and what I want from a partner and life, there is just no way exW has a road back now. She is not the person I want to be with. I am so at peace with that now. I am coming up to 2 years since BD and it's taken that much time to get to this calm zen place.

It is really exciting to be on this side of the tunnel because I just have so much clarity now. I am also very happy with myself and spending time and doing things for myself. A partnership would be great, but I don't feel like I 'need' it and that I am missing something in life.


No one is coming to save you!