Word for word what my ww said to me, but this was not until after we had agreed to try R. After hearing that and that she "needed to work on herself before she tried R" (which we were already working on) I knew it was to much for me. If you are able to work through ti, much props to you and good luck.
I think every H has a WW that says this at one point. Probably due to the chemicals in their brains that are out of whack due to the affair. Would explain why they don't know who they are or what they want...just my opinion though
