13 years and 2 kids pt. 5

[Hurt213]

Update:

So a possible buyer has requested a showing this coming sunday. That is wonderful, and really great if the house sells.

WAW / ex texted me and told be about the past week regarding kids (we switch today) - she told me, that D5 had said that she wants to have a lizard at my new place, and a hamster at her place... I just wrote "Thank you".

She then texted me a long list of all our stuff and told me she had tried to split up things the way she proposed it should be - and I could look it over. I did, and immediately saw, that the list definitely did not reflect anything close to reasonable from an economic perspective. I texted "I think we need to meet up, and go through the house together while we agree on the divide of items - the current list definitely does not work for me."

Basically she wants all the high priced items, and tries to cover it up with giving me a lot of the cheap IKEA stuff, that I really dont have any interest in taking with me anyways. She then wanted me to take our bed to which I replied "I have no intention of bringing our bed with me. We can sell it, if you do not want it either."

I must admit, that I feel like having dropped the rope 95%, but these small things as seeing my kids childhood home in an online sales catalogue, or recieving a list of how all the things we bought together through the past 12 years should just be split in half - it gets me in the feels.... I need to detach further, but just being honest here.

She her self being a child of divorced parents might not struggle with the process - but me, for the most case I am fine, but I guess some things still get to me, more than I want them too.