Separated 11 months

[P_Jam]

Hope,
Don't be so hard on yourself or the sitch. It's true maybe it means nothing maybe it means something - but you're mind reading. I do it too. BUT! if you're going to mind read you have to at least try and be equally fair on both sides. 2 weeks ago he was serious about D, then nothing> I'm sure some DB'ing was working (but its not over). The year book... that very well could just be an automated response to make sure he's not showing to many of his cards right now. Or it could mean that hes' still focused on divorce. The point is, the year book response really means NOTHING - you just read into it that; it doesn't support the other mind reading about his attention on D. Cut yourself (and him) some slack. if you're going to mind read at least try to balance it and limit the amount of weight you put on it. Otherwise you will make decisions that could hurt the sitch. Remember how you feel when you're mind reading in the positive? you make better decisions in that mindset. Everyone here will just tell you to stop PERIOD - but I know how hard that is. So just take steps to limit how MUCH you read into it and keep moving forward.