Moving on to the bright side Part 25

[AndrewP]

So just one thing I wanted to put out there about timelines and when to do what. Most here can tell a story about how we knew, or thought we knew someone for years who turned out to be someone completely different.

Even those who have post D dated have often invested months or even years taking things slow and getting to know another person only to realise after much investment that it's not going to work.

Now you J9 do have the additional complication and responsibility to protect your girls and we all agree that is paramount.

There's an old and undoubtedly apocryphal story that the head engineer at NASA had a sign on his wall saying At some point in any project it is necessary to shoot the engineers and begin production

There are no guarantees. There are no rules. To quote the fictional ancient philosophers Captain Hector Barabosa "These are what we like to call guidelines rather than actual rules"