Why Keep Hope, Part 3 (Moving Forward)

[Wanted1]

W,

This isn’t high school my man you don’t like a girl on Match and wait for her to like you back. You send her a message and mention something in her profile.

I thought you were in a long distance relationship all ready?

Well, I’m new to this $hit! I assumed that was what the like feature was for! If they are interested, they let me know and then I initiate conversation.

I wouldn’t say I’m in a relationship. I’ve been talking to the girl for a couple months. We got together two different times. We haven’t been intimate on either occasion. She’s all about taking it slow, which I am too, and mentioned a fear of getting too attached because of the distance and because my priority is my kids and doesn’t want to take away from that. Haven’t really had the conversation about whether it’s exclusive or not, so I’m not going to assume it is and continue keeping my options open.

Unless SHE says to you she wants to make it exclusive then its not. Keep on truckin.

Yep, that's been my mindset all along. I'm not engaging that conversation unless she brings it up.

Sorry for the hijack, harvey!